The Cave
BY CALVARY FISHER
digital illustration
digital illustration
It’s finally Spring, and everyone’s out frolicking. If you’re like me, you spent the whole winter working hard (or procrastinating by the space heater) and all these fuzzy feelings are a tad foreign. What’s happening to my mind? How long has it been? I don’t know. Whatever the length, everyone’s been through a dry spell. Well, maybe not everyone. I mean how would I know, but my hunch is it’s a thing for even the most…adept among us. Whether you’re taking a voluntary break from sex, shedding your last tear from that breakup, or still trying to make it happen with that crush of yours, getting back in the dating/sex game can be intimidating. My take: If you’re not having sex and you want to, it happens! You’re a great human. Keep that head up! If you’re abstaining on purpose, that’s great. Don’t let these kids tell you what’s cool. I get it though, not having sex on a sex positive campus can be tough. Just remember: the image in your mind of whatever guy, girl, person has it figured out is just an image. You don’t have to live up to it, and you might just have some more positive encounters if you’re not trying to.
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